Difficult Family Relationships.

I cant stand my brother in law. He never greeted me nice got to know me treated me like stranger. He wants to make amends now but he disrespected me too much. I don't like him get on with him but my wife loves him and respects him. I also have problems with my in-laws.

Shalom!

Thank you for writing to us.

We received a number of your emails asking us about complicated family relationships.

Strengthening family relationships, where possible, can be very rewarding endeavor.

Here are some thoughts that maybe you can implement in some of the family challenges you wrote about.

First of all, always stay calm. Address conflicts calmly and respectfully. Avoid yelling or blaming. Try to negotiate the issues by finding common ground that satisfy everyone's needs and concerns. Respect personal boundaries and privacy.

Sometimes, however, professional help is needed and maybe you should seek counselling. A professional therapist can offer guidance and strategies to improve relationships.

Allow to me conclude by advising that you lead by example. Model the behavior you wish to see in your family. Show kindness, patience, and respect in your interactions.

Improving family relationships requires effort, patience, and commitment from all members. We wish you luck!

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